You’ve been married for six months. You love this person and life has never been better. You’re looking forward to forever.

One day, you’re looking for something in the closet and find a shoebox with a handgun shoved in the back.

You’re shocked. You never felt strongly about guns one way or another, but fear creeps into your heart as you look at the shiny metal. Two thoughts pop into mind:

1. You don’t want this in your home or anywhere near you.
2. When did the love of your life become interested in guns, register for one and buy one? More importantly, why wasn’t there a conversation about it? Why weren’t you informed?

So your honey comes home from work. You’re sitting in the kitchen/living room/study with the shoebox in your lap. And what do you do?