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Good Intentions

Bibles Before the Year 1000

I overslept. On purpose. I glanced at the alarm clock as it went off off at 7:00 a.m. on a Sunday and thought to myself — how badly DO I really want to see this exhibit?

Then I rolled over and slept for a couple more hours.

That’ll teach me to wait til the last minute.

Though I feel encouraged by the great success of the exhibit. I didn’t think it would be as popular as it was. A collection of old books written in obscure languages. Actually, most of the books aren’t even books in the true sense — they’re scrolls of parchment or scraps of papyrus or illuminated codices.

Argh — now I am feeling regret at not seeing those magnificent artifacts firsthand.

I love books and languages. In fact I own many books written in Portuguese, Spanish, French and Italian, as well as many Portuguese translations of English novels. It’s interesting to see how the meaning or precise thought will change when you read it in a different language. I prefered reading the Portuguese translation of Umberto Ecco’s “O Nome da Rosa.” And when it comes to Les Miserables nothing compares with Victor Hugo’s original French. Or to read different English translations of the same work like Gilgamesh.

I’ve been volunteering with the Smithsonian for almost four months now. I’ve grown accustomed to answering stupid questions from visitors at the various museums I work at. Some of my favorites include “Where are the dinosaurs?” when they’re facing the entrance to the hall and the huge “DINOSAUR” sign; “I didn’t know there were two White Houses” when they’re actually referring to the US Captiol Building and the executive mansion; “Where’s all the stuff?” when they’re in the Smithsonian Castle and obviously unaware that the Smithsonian is comprised of 19 different museums.

I guess that’s why I was shocked that the Bible exhibit garnered so much attention.

In July the Dead Sea Scrolls will go on exhibit in the Natural History Museum of San Diego. Maybe now I’ll be forced to put San Diego on my “Places to Visit” list for 2007 — even though I was just there for the Fourth of July last year.

Though the one show I absolutely positively can’t miss is King Tut in Philadelphia. I toyed with the idea of flying to Chicago for a behind-the-scenes tour at one of my all-time favorite museums on the planet. To this day one of the best exhibits I’ve ever been to is Cleopatra of Egypt. But my work schedule didn’t allow for it.

DC might boast some of the better traveling art shows, but when it comes to the truly spectacular exhibits, I always have to travel to New York or Chicago. But I digress…

I’m going to visit the Franklin Institute sometime in April to see King Tut because my big trip — planned for the end of the year — will be a couple weeks in Egypt.

With that thought, I’m off to *work* to earn the big bucks to take my trip.


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Unseasonably warm

Shameless Liar

I was on a mission. I wanted to see the Bibles Before the Year 1000 exhibit at the Sackler Gallery. It closes tomorrow so I thought it would be better to go through it today.

The weather was glorious. I dug out my summer clothes from the back of my closet and threw on a short sleeved t-shirt. I decided to walk to the museum and ran into this character outside of the White House. There were groups of protesters with megaphones and wearing signs to impeach Bush.

I watched in awe as people in tank tops and shorts strolled around the city. I imagine this is what it must feel like to live in Miami in January. It’s discombobulating. I’m beginning to miss the cold weather.

Anyway, I got to the museum at 2:30 p.m. and was told the exhibit was closed for the day. The exhibit is so popular, they needed to close it early to insure that the people already in line would have time to go through it before the museum closed at 5:30 p.m.

So tomorrow I’m going to wake up early and get to the museum around 8:30 a.m. to get in line. I figure I’ll bring along a paperback to kill time until the museum opens at 10:00 a.m. I am going to see this exhibit. Here are the Washington Post reviews.


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Keeping it simple

White Wine

Last night I met my best friend Kay out for dinner and drinks. As the night progressed, I realized most of our conversation involved changes we wanted to make this year. By the time we parted, we’d developed an ambitious list:

  1. Brunch every Sunday at 11:00 a.m.
  2. Host a salon-style dinner party once a month
  3. Rediscover DC
  4. Volunteer to raise awareness and money for breast cancer research
  5. No more cabs — instead walk 10,000 steps per day (I’m buying our pedometers later this afternoon)
  6. No more caffeine
  7. No more meat
  8. No more television
  9. Take a Spanish language class
  10. Simplify simplify simplify

How can you simplify your life?


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A Clean Slate

Clean Slate

I wanted to wake up bright and early to kick off the new year but ended up sleeping in past noon. Some might say sleeping so late is a sign of depression, but I counter that with my 4:00 a.m. bedtime the night before.

The gray day outside didn’t encourage much frolicking about, so I curled up on my couch with a blank calendar and blank leather journal and sketched out my year. This is a ritual I perform every year – though I rarely stick with the plan or the budget I set down on paper.

I’m determined to make this year different.

Goals for 2007:

  1. Save money
  2. Get fit and healthy
  3. Refresh my home
  4. Turn off the television
  5. Write everyday
  6. Travel more
  7. Learn a language
  8. Improve communication and relationships with family
  9. Look into returning to school for anthropology
  10. Simplify


What are your resolutions or goals for this new year?


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2006 Wrap up

Countdown

I feel as though I didn’t accomplish much this year. In fact, if someone were to tinker with my memory and erase large portions of time, I don’t think I’d miss forgetting 2006… or not remembering.

The meager highlights:

  1. New Year’s Eve with friends
  2. a few random road trips with J.J.
  3. attending two writers conferences and meeting with editors and book reviewers
  4. my niece’s 1st Birthday party
  5. Fourth of July in San Diego
  6. volunteering with the Smithsonian
  7. art history at NMWA
  8. a new dining room set
  9. Democrats take back Congress
  10. Christmas holidays with the family


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On the road again

Highway

I didn’t sleep well. I knew I wanted to leave the house at 4:00 a.m. and my mind waited at the edge of dreams. When the cellphone alarm went off at 3:45, I felt as though I’d just climbed into bed.

I dressed quickly and tiptoed down the carpeted stairs. I shoved the balled up nightclothes into a duffle bag and looked over at my mom as she flipped over on the couch.

“Are you sure you want to leave this early?” she asked, her voice full of sleep.

“I want to beat traffic. I don’t want to be driving all day like last time,” I said and ducked into the dark bathroom to brush my teeth.

I heard someone on the stairs, heavy and slow steps. My dad. Inexplicably I felt my throat tighten and said a silent prayer that I would not start crying.

I thought ahead to the route I’d take and planned when I’d stop to fill the gas tank and grab a tall coffee.  Anything to  avoid thoughts of my leaving them all here.

I hugged my dad. Thanked him for the presents he’d given me. Promised to drive slow.

My mom followed me outside. She stood quietly as I maneuvered the last two bags into the trunk. The stars winked from the night sky. I’d forgotten how many there are.  I noticed Orion and Cassiopeia.

Finally, I took a shaky breath and gave her a big hug. She shoved $30 into my pocket.

“For gas or for food or in case of an emergency,”  she said. I felt bad because I knew she needed the money more than I did. But I also knew there was no arguing with her.

“I love you mom.”

“Drive safe. Call me at 9 and let me know where you are,” she said.

She watched from the driveway as I got into the driver’s seat and gave a small nod when I pulled on the seat belt. The headlights shone on her, bundled in a white quilted coat and my brother’s ratty sneakers. I waved as I pulled away, and from the rearview mirror watched her finally turn towards the house after I pulled out of their main street.

I’m still not sure why I felt so sad when I left this morning. I haven’t felt a teary farewell in years, but today I cried til I sped onto the interstate. And then something else set in and I braced myself for the ride home.


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Expectations

Christmas

Dread filled my heart as I packed my bags and prepared for the drive north. I couldn’t help thinking I’d be better off staying in DC. I resented the feelings of obligation and guilt that served as my motivation.

And had I listened to my selfish heart I would have missed out on one of the best weeks of the year. Sure I spent too much money and didn’t get a chance to visit with everyone, but I had a blast.

My niece is amazing. She is 18 months old and the most adorable little girl on Earth.  My grandmother is 82 and in perfect health.  I don’t show her enough love or appreciation.

And then there was the quality time I managed to spend with my dad and mom and with my brothers.

There were no fights this year, no arguments, no yelling or banging or complaining. All my worry and dread was for nothing.


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Seven Swans a Swimming

holidays

Every December I travel “home for the holidays” and this year I’m feeling like Scrooge.

I’ve missed other family events, been absent for other holidays, but in my entire life, I have always been present at Christmas.

This year I just don’t feel like going.

Instead of focusing on the positive — as I normally do — I keep thinking of the five nights I’ll be sleeping on a couch, living out of a suitcase and making time to visit with all my relatives, wasting hours circling parking lots and garages for a space, the annual arguments, all the effort.

All the effort.

Then I’ll have two days to myself to do laundry and clean before going back to work.

On Saturday I realized how desperate I was. I woke up thinking maybe, just maybe, the east coast would get hit with a freak blizzard and I’d have an excuse for not traveling. It was about 60 outside and sunny… but I had a smidgen of hope.

But today’s temperature hit a high of 70 — very unusual for December — and the extended forecast pretty much melted away any prospect of Mother Nature stepping in to provide me with an excuse for missing the family activities.

On the one hand, I don’t want to miss my dad’s birthday and am dying to hug my niece. On the other hand, if I don’t make the trip every six months, I’d never see my family. The last time any of them traveled south to see me was before 9-11.

I’m such a coward.

What does it say about me that I’d rather use my vacation time to travel to the yucatan of Mexico or Buenos Aires than spend time with family?