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Words of Wisdom

 choices

A wise person once said:
“Our lives are not defined by our abilities, but by our choices.”

Of course, I don’t recall who this sage was, or which film it was in, or the book I lifted it from. I just remember that simple sentence.

I’ve made some bad choices. Sometimes I almost feel like I’ve been running from the choices I made ten years ago… and if I don’t make changes and soon, I’ll be in the same place another ten years from now.

Which isn’t necessarily an awful thing. It just isn’t great either.


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Family Gatherings

 bridal shower

A bridal shower holds so much promise. Family and friends join the future bride to break bread and assist her on the way. Boxes wrapped in pink with oversized bows stack on a table. Floral and spicey perfumes mingle with the scent of crisp bacon and omelets. A cake, shaped like a giant sunflower, sits in a corner.

The maid of honor passes around homemade bingo cards. Games are played. Flashbulbs flash. Cameras whir, spent film cartridges rewinding.

Some women look older, thinner, plumper, shorter. I recognize my childhood conspirator in the face of the woman before me, a baby boy on her hip. My mother sits beside her mother, first cousins, cramming in the last ten years into a 3 hour brunch.

Frayed photos are passed around. Mini-albums pulled out of leather purses. The women proudly showing their loved ones, their young ones, their children and grandchildren.

What is it about women? Living individual lives, yet coming together to ensure their own succeeds? No matter how different, how radical, the common shared traits are often most significant.

Pregnant women, married women, single women, little girls, mothers, daughters, cousins, friends, sisters.


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bicycles in Amsterdam

It’s been a brutal month at work. Who’s ever heard of a busy July? I was expecting to cruise along this month, but instead have been running ragged.

This morning I overslept. Standing at a busy intersection, I waved my arm in the air, attempting to hail a cab. That’s when I saw her…. a woman, dressed in a conservative navy blue business suit, her skirt hiked up to her thighs, briefcase slung across her back, riding a bicycle in 3-inch heels.

Most cyclists in DC are couriers, zipping in and out of traffic in their body hugging chromatic uniforms.

But this woman looked completely out of place. It reminded me of my time in Amsterdam – where everyone rode a bicycle…. in suits, in dresses, to the office, from the clubs.

And although I was running late and dreading the day ahead, the memory made me smile.


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Americans spend 90% of their lives indoors

I rode the metro home yesterday from a briefing on global climate change on Capitol Hill. The entire event was depressing.First off – it looks like a bomb went off on the Capitol grounds. I know they’re building tunnels and bunkers and reinforcing foundations, but it looks like hell. I thought the White House looked bad. Walk at your own risk if you’re by the Capitol building.

Then I sat through an hour-long briefing about climate change. Humans are stupid. People are greedy. And the scientists were making a lot of sense.

The images were ghastly – esp. side-by-side photos of Kilimanjaro taken in 1912 and in 2000. The contrast is staggering. By the year 2020, the ice cap will be gone.

Anyway – so I was already feeling a little grumpy, a little unsettled, when I looked up and read this advertisement for Wisk’s America Needs Dirt campaign.

“The average American spends over 20 hours a day in an enclosed structure.”

How depressing!

It’s no wonder no one pays attention to the environment – the quality of the air we breathe or the water we drink – or the climate. I mean – if everyone stays indoors, who cares if the sea level rises 20 centimeters or that the air quality index warns of unhealthy levels?

That also provides an answer to the American obesity problem. People are bigger because instead of gardening, they’re sitting on a couch watching television; instead of going for a walk, they’re crosslegged on the bed surfing the net; instead of playing outside with their kids, they’re trapped in cars stuck in traffic.

Doesn’t sound like much of an American dream to me.

Don’t get me wrong – I’m guilty of preferring the artificial cool of air conditioned rooms to the humid heat of outside. I sit indoors, drinking gallons of coffee at $4.95 a cup, surfing the net in coffeeshop bliss. I’m guilty of plopping on the couch to zone out for hour after hour of Netflix pleasure.

I don’t know if it was the shock of seeing the Capitol grounds torn up (because I never ever go down there and hadn’t seen any of the construction until yesterday), or the effect of the climatologists dire predictions, or my dismay to realize that I too am one of those Americans who spend 90% of their lives indoors…… I’m going to spend more time outside.


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Forget that African Safari

 cicada

Scientists have been buzzing about the cicadas for months. The red-eyed Brood X have been making headlines.

The press has done a good job of forewarning about the noise, the lifecycle, the poor eyesight, and get `em while they’re hot items.

I don’t care that they’re not particularly dangerous. I could care less that they don’t bite. They’re gross!

I’ve been blessed… haven’t seen any of those darstedly critters until this morning and all day today. Walking from the metro to my office building I noticed 6 squished cicadas on the sidewalk. By the time I grabbed lunch around 3:00, the pavement was littered with carcasses. (shudder)

I felt like Jack Nicholson in “As Good As It Gets” as I danced down the street, trying to avoid stepping on one of them and feeling icky – just thinking about them.

Well… they’re here, they’re in my way, and let me put if this way – they ain’t no ladybug. I say good riddance! I can’t believe I have to put up with them til July (shudders again).

And this coming from a girl who’s dream vacation is a monthlong African Safari. Yeah. Right. Who am I kidding?


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What would you do?

gun
You’ve been married for six months. You love this person and life has never been better. You’re looking forward to forever.

One day, you’re looking for something in the closet and find a shoebox with a handgun shoved in the back.

You’re shocked. You never felt strongly about guns one way or another, but fear creeps into your heart as you look at the shiny metal. Two thoughts pop into mind:

1. You don’t want this in your home or anywhere near you.
2. When did the love of your life become interested in guns, register for one and buy one? More importantly, why wasn’t there a conversation about it? Why weren’t you informed?

So your honey comes home from work. You’re sitting in the kitchen/living room/study with the shoebox in your lap. And what do you do?


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Toys

1st mp3
My new toy *ROCKS.*Here’s a random sample of what I’m listening to now:

AC/DC :: Back in Black
Depeche Mode :: Stripped
Freestylers :: Check the Skillz
Freestlyers :: Don’t Stop
The Hives :: Hate to Say I Told You So
Jane’s Addiction :: Just Because
LaTour :: Blue
Lenny Kravitz :: American Woman
Limp Bizkit :: Rollin’
Mint Royale :: From Rusholme with Love
No Doubt :: Hella Good
Overseer :: Supermoves
Rob Zombie :: Dragula
Smash Mouth :: Diggin’ Your Scene
The Vines :: Get Free

What are you listening to?


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Food for Thought

Tribune

Because he says it so much better than I ever could… here is an editorial by Don Wycliff of the Chicago Tribune.

Bush reaping the benefits of journalistic professionalism
Covering an inarticulate president

Published April 29, 2004

Why is the press protecting George W. Bush?

You heard me right, Russ. And Larry. And Byron. And all the rest of you folks who pen those jeering notes to me every day about anti-Bush bias in the Tribune’s news reports.

Why is the Democrat-loving, Republican-hating, pond scum-swilling, lower-than-the-rug-on-the-floor, biased, liberal [curl upper lip when pronouncing] press protecting George W. Bush?

You don’t believe it’s happening? Well, then, tell me about the furor over W’s speech last week to a joint meeting in Washington of the American Society of Newspaper Editors and the Newspaper Association of America.

You didn’t hear about it?

That’s the proof.

If the press were not protecting Bush, you’d have read in your Chicago Tribune–or Washington Post or New York Times or Wall Street Journal or USA Today–that he delivered one of the most confusing, inarticulate public addresses since … well, some people would say since his press conference a week earlier.

As it was, those hopelessly biased reporters who cover Bush overlooked the mangled syntax, penetrated the rhetorical fog and extracted some usable lines from the dross and manufactured stories that had the president sounding, if not quite statesmanlike, then at least intelligible.

The New York Times’ Elisabeth Bumiller led with Bush’s response to a poll that showed the majority of Americans expect another terrorist attack in the U.S. before the November election. “Well, I understand why they think they’re going to get hit again,” Bush was quoted as saying. “This is a hard country to defend.”

The Washington Post focused on his remarks about Iran’s effort to acquire nukes. “The Iranians need to feel the pressure from the world that any nuclear weapons program will be uniformly condemned–it’s essential that they hear that message,” the president was quoted.

Neither The Wall Street Journal nor the Tribune carried a story about the speech per se, although the Tribune carried an Associated Press story that wove one quote from the speech into a story on the unexpectedly high costs of the Iraqi excursion. “The Iraqi people are looking at Americans and saying, `Are we going to cut and run again?'” the quote ran. “And we’re not going to cut and run if I’m in the Oval Office.”

I can’t prove it, but I would bet that most of the editors and publishers went away from the speech wondering why Bush, who long ago proved that he is no extemporaneous speaker, hadn’t ordered up an address for the occasion from his stable of White House speechwriters. I heard more than one of those in attendance say the same thing: “He wasted an opportunity.”

But you didn’t read about any of that, because the reporters, trained to seek meaning and the meaningful in any utterance by the president, focused on what could be understood.

Bush has benefited from this journalistic professionalism throughout his presidency. In a column almost two years ago, in July 2002, I quoted the complaint of a reader who claimed we had misquoted the president’s statement in a press conference denying any “`malfeasance’ in his business dealings prior to becoming president.”

“The word that he actually used … sounded to me something like `misfeance’–something which is not a word in any dictionary I’ve ever seen,” the reader, Sean Barnawell of Chicago, wrote. “I feel the Tribune should not be in the business of `cleansing’ what the president says in order to make him sound more articulate than he is.”

I replied thus: “Ideally, we would have a president so articulate that we would never be in doubt as to what he said. In reality, we have one who regularly mispronounces. … This confronts us with the question whether our purpose is to transmit to readers what the president means when he speaks out or to simply relate what he says. I have always felt that transmitting meaning is paramount. ..”

And so “nuculer” becomes “nuclear” in the newspaper. And “misfeance,” unknown to any dictionary, becomes “malfeasance,” because an experienced White House reporter has learned to translate Bushspeak.

Bush benefits from the reporters’ professionalism. And his cheering section jeers from the sidelines about journalistic “bias.”

The investigation continues

In response to queries from outside the Tribune and within, let me assure you that the review of Uli Schmetzer’s past work is going forward. My colleague Margaret Holt and I continue to read stories, marking those that seem to merit additional attention and turning them over to a researcher in the paper’s editorial library for deeper investigation. Those that merit even deeper attention after that will get it. But it would be imprudent of me at this stage to suggest when the investigation will be finished.

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Don Wycliff is the Tribune’s public editor. He listens to readers’ concerns and questions about the paper’s coverage and writes weekly about current issues in journalism. His e-mail address is dwycliff@tribune.com. The views expressed are his own.